You know what, being pregnant before marriage is largely dependent on the historical context and the societal norms.
There are many unforeseeable conditions that may have led to pre-marriage pregnancy and I think it’s an absolute error should we decide to make a blanket statement about what is right or wrong (simply because things aren’t always black or white).
.Eric
imEric | 十一月 15, 2009, 01:43am
意見:
for me i dis agree with that,but sometime we cant control the situation,especialy for the young ones,they dont care what will gonna hapen for being curious.
coz, ive been there before, i got pregnat when i was 16,its hard though,but i’ve learned a lot in that experience.
if that situation happen to your kids or friends, we have to be open minded, we dont have to blame them, coz blaming them will not gonna help to solve the problem, just show them that you will still love them no matter what happen.
首先,我自己絕對唔會發生婚前性行為,我亦覺得咁樣做係不對的,但如果我的朋友發生依d事既時候,我是不會排斥佢地的。對於我來說,結婚係一生一世既事,男女雙方對對方的一種誠諾,如果一對男女結婚並唔係真心愛對方,只不過係女方懷孕而雙方逼住去結婚(逼佢地既原因可能係家人、朋友或當時人本身既認因。)咁依一段婚姻會成功嗎??會幸福嗎??會長久嗎??
本人孤陋寡聞,在此亂講一通,但願更多的人去探討此問題!