You know what, being pregnant before marriage is largely dependent on the historical context and the societal norms.
There are many unforeseeable conditions that may have led to pre-marriage pregnancy and I think it’s an absolute error should we decide to make a blanket statement about what is right or wrong (simply because things aren’t always black or white).
.Eric
imEric | 十一月 15, 2009, 01:43am
意見:
for me i dis agree with that,but sometime we cant control the situation,especialy for the young ones,they dont care what will gonna hapen for being curious.
coz, ive been there before, i got pregnat when i was 16,its hard though,but i’ve learned a lot in that experience.
if that situation happen to your kids or friends, we have to be open minded, we dont have to blame them, coz blaming them will not gonna help to solve the problem, just show them that you will still love them no matter what happen.
lorena
lore | 一月 13, 2010, 02:40pm
意見:
我個人不太認同.但如果本黎有愛情基礎,也不算是問題.
但如果係冇感情基礎,only for sex then 懷孕而結婚既,就5認同.因為結婚係代表雙方感情更進一步,5應該將結婚放喺bb身上作做reson.咁樣既婚姻,5會成功,只會有更多問題發生.
CHOYI1910 | 四月 05, 2010, 11:52pm
意見:
睇下咩age囉,,成年人都冇咩所謂
但未成年既就點都唔可以
;] | 四月 17, 2010, 06:16pm
意見:
多數都唔會..
Shirleybaby | 四月 28, 2010, 06:10pm
意見:
Personally yes, because it’s not something you can control entirely.
If you don’t want to fall pregnant? Don’t have sex. Is it possible? I don’t think so.
I believe the only issue about pregnancies is whether you face the responsibility, married or not!
Honestly… it’s just a piece of paper?
Of course I accept the fact that people get pregnant before they get married, that’s a social and physical reality.
If you mean to ask whether I find the practice acceptable ... then let me turn around to ask, do we have to be so prudish and judgmental? It’s not a question of the pregnant woman’s morality, it’s a question of what society does to make a difficult situation worse for these people, in name of “traditions.”
首先,我自己絕對唔會發生婚前性行為,我亦覺得咁樣做係不對的,但如果我的朋友發生依d事既時候,我是不會排斥佢地的。對於我來說,結婚係一生一世既事,男女雙方對對方的一種誠諾,如果一對男女結婚並唔係真心愛對方,只不過係女方懷孕而雙方逼住去結婚(逼佢地既原因可能係家人、朋友或當時人本身既認因。)咁依一段婚姻會成功嗎??會幸福嗎??會長久嗎??
本人孤陋寡聞,在此亂講一通,但願更多的人去探討此問題!