An MC adoptee's return to the Child Care
Tanja’s Letter:
“At Mother’s Choice there are those who are new to the world – with the blessing to find a new home, at times even a new cultural surrounding. And then there are those involved in the daily care of these babies, attending their physical and emotional development, who introduce the babies to how beautiful the world can be. I’ve seen both sides.
At 18, I decided to visit Hong Kong Mother's Choice, my first home, to r...
Tanja’s Letter:
“At Mother’s Choice there are those who are new to the world – with the blessing to find a new home, at times even a new cultural surrounding. And then there are those involved in the daily care of these babies, attending their physical and emotional development, who introduce the babies to how beautiful the world can be. I’ve seen both sides.
At 18, I decided to visit Hong Kong Mother's Choice, my first home, to return a little of what I’ve received. “Home” is how it felt when I was welcomed every morning when my shift started. The volunteers show so much patience and, with their best interests at heart, the little babies are filled with all the love in the world…
Coming back to my first home was an experience I cannot put into words. For me, being adopted has never been an issue: my parents decided to keep my birth name (Lok-Yi means “happy child”)… and adoption was always a very open-discussed topic, so it wasn’t a big surprise that I wished to visit Mother's Choice to better understand who I was , who I am, and will be. …Volunteering at MC, I understood that I was fortunate all along. Starting from how I was taken care of by the volunteers, the right selection by my parents, my little sister who was also adopted from Mother's Choice… When I took care of the little ones in Baby Care, it was great to know that I was one of them 18 years ago, because I’m more than sure that they have a great life ahead of them; there’s so much planned.
It was very special to me to get reacquainted with Purviz and Guia, who have volunteered at Mother's Choice for over 20 years – they took care of me in my first 8 weeks in 1992.
From the young birthmothers who stayed at Mother's Choice and brought their babies in, to those other parents who were about to adopt, I’ve been lucky to experience all kinds of cases. I’ve had a great time volunteering and learned that, whether you belong to the little tiny ones or the grown-up ones, you have something in common: you’re a family member.
Love,
Tanya Lok-Yi Fleischer
